Ladies in Facebook are re-posting the thread – “A real Boyfriend” which to me is unbelievable. To find someone with all the traits in a relationship is absolutely impossible. For im not being pessimistic, oh well that’s the hard truth –reality of life.
If you tell me that, “Hey, my boyfriend has all the traits as listed below!”. Thank God for that! To me is either, he has been through lots of relationship, he is a damn player, or okay just by luck that such man exists in this world?
“A real Boyfriend”
- When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her ..( if I am a man and a woman starts cursing me, I would just walk away)
- When she is quiet, ask her what’s wrong..(A wise man should know that something is definitely wrong! Don’t ask her what’s wrong, do not agitate her further)
- When she ignores you, give her your attention.. (Why did she ignore you in the first place?)
- When you see her at her worst, tell her she’s beautiful.. (Sweet talking?)
- When you see her crying, just hold her and don’t say a word…(????? )
- When she says it's over, she still wants you to be her's ( Over means over for me ...)
- When she is mad, hug her tight..( I think I will be fuming in rage…)
I mean come on, im being realistic about this. Majority of the traits are ridiculous and at the end of the day even when you are done with all the lists, you are still not qualified to be a real boyfriend. That’s for sure! For once, I saw and admit the complexity of being in a relationship – its's a love/hate relationship. For, No words are always enough, no actions are always sufficient to prove the real love and sincerity. It’s like being caught in the middle where on some days you are on the highest and on some days, you just feel that you are at the lowest…
I think I’ve complained a lot – just to get my point across…
My conclusion is a real boyfriend/ husband/ fiancé is not about having all the listed traits but someone who wouldn’t leave you/ abandon you the moment he finds out that you will be a huge burden to him – instead he stays on, do a thorough research for solutions and assure you that he will share it with you through ups and down.
So im pushing aside all those mushy and irrelevant lists of a perfect boyfriend behavior - as for once in life – I have found an almost imperfect soul mate to share the rest of his life with the imperfect me…
If you tell me that, “Hey, my boyfriend has all the traits as listed below!”. Thank God for that! To me is either, he has been through lots of relationship, he is a damn player, or okay just by luck that such man exists in this world?
“A real Boyfriend”
- When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough, kiss her and tell her you love her ..( if I am a man and a woman starts cursing me, I would just walk away)
- When she is quiet, ask her what’s wrong..(A wise man should know that something is definitely wrong! Don’t ask her what’s wrong, do not agitate her further)
- When she ignores you, give her your attention.. (Why did she ignore you in the first place?)
- When you see her at her worst, tell her she’s beautiful.. (Sweet talking?)
- When you see her crying, just hold her and don’t say a word…(????? )
- When she says it's over, she still wants you to be her's ( Over means over for me ...)
- When she is mad, hug her tight..( I think I will be fuming in rage…)
I mean come on, im being realistic about this. Majority of the traits are ridiculous and at the end of the day even when you are done with all the lists, you are still not qualified to be a real boyfriend. That’s for sure! For once, I saw and admit the complexity of being in a relationship – its's a love/hate relationship. For, No words are always enough, no actions are always sufficient to prove the real love and sincerity. It’s like being caught in the middle where on some days you are on the highest and on some days, you just feel that you are at the lowest…
I think I’ve complained a lot – just to get my point across…
My conclusion is a real boyfriend/ husband/ fiancé is not about having all the listed traits but someone who wouldn’t leave you/ abandon you the moment he finds out that you will be a huge burden to him – instead he stays on, do a thorough research for solutions and assure you that he will share it with you through ups and down.
So im pushing aside all those mushy and irrelevant lists of a perfect boyfriend behavior - as for once in life – I have found an almost imperfect soul mate to share the rest of his life with the imperfect me…
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